I'll Call It Like I See It

by sheila morris

Category: Humor

  • Hey, Girl, Hey!

    Hey, Girl, Hey!


    Some birthdays the hits just keep on rolling. Although my actual birthday was the 21st., two nights later another Memory Maker at El Jimador in Cayce. Pretty and I met some of our Gamecock Women’s basketball buddies JD, Garner, Brian, Joan and Robert for a dinner at a – wait for it – Mexican restaurant to continue celebrating the euphoria of our third National Championship, and talking up the chances of repeating in 2025 when the Final Four returns to Tampa Bay where Pretty and I attended our first Final Four with the Gamecocks in 2015 when, alas, there was no victory to celebrate.

    Garner and JD found this birthday card that reminded them of my greeting whenever I see them at the games: Hey, girls, hey!

    But they also brought me a bottle of my favorite liquor for shots before the games, or really for any occasion. Silver Patro’n Tequila. (Excuse the accent mark error.) Hopefully, you already know the tequila I’m talking about. JD included a container of his famous homemade blue cheese dressing that I could almost drink by itself with or without a shot. Thankfully, I have a bag of Fritos I can dip into it for a tasty lunch today. Yummy.

    Brian and Robert treated me to my favorite dinner of two cheese enchiladas with delicious rice and beans as a reward not only for a birthday but also for my win with Pretty for the most repeat viewings of the 2024 championship victory over Iowa in the past two weeks. Our number was 5, but Garner and JD weren’t far behind with 3. If anyone can top 5, please let me know. Coaches and players can’t participate in the contest!

    In June of 1967 I was already a sports fan even as I contemplated my graduation in two months from the University of Texas at Austin. This random picture recently came out of the blue to me from another UT friend who lives in Wyoming now. She and I were visiting my grandparents in Richards, Texas. Their house is in the background of this picture of me with my parents’ bird dog puppy Seth. The house no longer is there – it burned to the ground many years ago. I recognize the Texas sweatshirt – they came in all colors, and I had bought this blue one since I already had several orange ones. Check out the vanilla jeans, a wardrobe necessity for me.

    That twenty-one-year-old young woman could never have imagined the twists and turns her life would take in the next fifty-seven years, but she would always remember her family on every birthday, holiday, and days in between because she still felt their love from deep in her heart.

    Maybe she should write a book about that time, the place and her people. Oh, that’s right. She did. Deep in the Heart: A Memoir of Love and Longing.

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    Stay tuned for next post: Meeting a Shero!

  • let them eat cake

    let them eat cake


    birthday cake from Pretty shared with granddaughters and their parents

    four-year-old Ella sat on table for better position near cake

    icing the best part of the birthday cake – Yummy!

    Birthday #78 started with a wonderful surprise in our yard when Pretty asked me first thing in the morning, have you seen the Happy Birthday yard sign? to which I responded, no, but let me look. When I opened the front door, I couldn’t believe my eyes! I went outside to take a picture and saw that one of our good friends for many years, Chuck Archie, had made the colorful wondrous birthday wishes and delivered them like Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny or the tooth fairy during the night for me to see when I woke up. Heartfelt thanks to Chuck for making such a festive gesture – it’s a real memory maker for me – I will smile whenever I think of his kindness.

    I had a personal Happy Place on my birthday yesterday, a space created by the many texts, Facebook messages, and cyberspace greetings. From childhood friends and family in Texas to friends and family in South Carolina to blogging friends around the world, I will treasure the warm feelings of love your words gave me. I am, indeed, a fortunate woman.

    While the day was extraordinary for me and Pretty, some things remained the same.

    Carl and Charly had their regular posts next to my favorite chair in the den

    Thank you all for hanging in with us.

  • You Win Some, You Lose NONE! (Parade Halt for this year)

    You Win Some, You Lose NONE! (Parade Halt for this year)


    The Parade was a huge success according to Columbia Mayor Daniel Rickenman with the largest crowds ever seen for any parade he could remember in the city. Estimates placed the number at more than 20,000 people who celebrated from where the Parade began on North Main Street to where it ended on the steps of the Statehouse two hours later.

    The following photos were taken by Alex Hicks, Jr. for the Greenville News at the 2024 Gamecock National Championship Parade in Columbia on Sunday, April 14rh. so full credit to him for the images I wish I could have captured.

    You Win Some, You Lose None

    Gamecock All Tournament Team Guard Raven Johnson greets “fams”

    crowds waiting for pep rally at Parade’s end

    Coach Staley and her team salute throngs of well-wishers

    from South Carolina statehouse steps

    National Championship MVP Kamilla Cardoso counts to three championships

    Coach Staley delivers heartfelt thanks, inspirational words

    following 38-0 perfect season and NCAA Championship

    Finally, if you are an American looking toward the November general elections with fear and trepidation, Alex Hicks, Jr. captured this sign during the parade:

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    P.S. Our granddaughters were among the 20,000 at the Parade Sunday, and although they had an awesome time, a couple of disappointments couldn’t be erased.

    I never saw Cocky at the parade, four-year-old Ella told me

    two-year-old Molly said, I never got ice cream

    (last two photos by Upstate Dawne)

  • 2024 GAMECOCK WOMEN’S BASKETBALL CHAMPIONSHIP PARADE!

    2024 GAMECOCK WOMEN’S BASKETBALL CHAMPIONSHIP PARADE!


    Deputy Coroner Susan Moore-Cooke, huge Gamecock women’s basketball “fam,” seen waving aboard this clever float from the Richland County Coroner’s Office

    (each R.I.P. headstone had a score for every post-season game including championship game with Iowa which the Gamecocks won 87-75)

    Let’s go, Gamecocks!

    hand in hand

    we’ll march later for world peace, world hunger, equal justice, democracy —

    but today we march for Coach Staley and her Gamecocks

    granddaughters Molly and Ella mesmerized by parade

    Nina, ice cream! ICE CREAM!

    Spurs Up!

    Gamecock Brian and Ella having fun waiting for the next float

    But where did ice cream truck go?

    Go Gamecocks!!

    More to come on Parade…stay tuned.

  • the energizer bunny within us

    the energizer bunny within us


    Texting with a favorite cousin Nita in Texas yesterday about my post on the Gamecock women’s basketball National Championship – she shared a memory of my daddy’s coaching days in Richards, a memory that made me smile.

    I remember your Dad in his shorts when he was coaching basketball in Richards, she texted me. Now that would have been a vision, I thought and laughed to myself. My daddy was a very short man with skinny legs in those days but I guess he wore shorts to practice with his team.

    So few people left who remember him, I texted Nita.

    He was an amazing man. Very strong and loving, she responded.

    I wish I had had him longer, I said. He was my best friend. (He died from colon cancer at the age of 51 when I was 30 years old.)

    You’re lucky to have had that valuable relationship, she texted. He would be so pleased to see you now in your happy place and all the things you do and experience. You’re the Energizer Bunny. You can knock her down, but she’ll pop up again. And keep going.

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    My cousin Nita has known me since I was born nearly 78 years ago in Navasota, Texas. Because she lived in the much bigger city of Rosenberg, was a few years older, was beautiful, always kind to me and my family, was my mother’s first cousin – the stars aligned to make her a goddess to me when I was growing up. Thinking of her now always makes me smile; she lives in Austin today with her husband Joey who is a huge sports fan like Pretty and me. When the Texas Longhorns women’s basketball team was eliminated in post season play, Nita and Joey became Gamecock fans.

    Many of my younger friends call me Sheila Slo because it takes me longer to get around when I’m with them. But my cousin Nita sees the Energizer Bunny side of me that she’s watched for nearly eight decades. I’ve had many knock downs in my life, gut checks happen at any age – it’s the “popping up” choices we make that may define us in the end.

    Cheers to the Energizer Bunny in you.