For any who want more, complete list of all posts by month since 2011
  • I hope you dance – a refrain

    I hope you dance – a refrain


    Two years ago on the 26th. of this month Molly Iris James was born to her parents Drew and Caroline, big sister Ella, and an assortment of extended family members who couldn’t believe their good fortune in welcoming the birth of a second baby girl to the village that would be her home. When I think of her second birthday in two weeks, the lyrics to the song “I Hope You Dance” by Tia Sillers and Mark Sanders float through my musical memories, a refrain from a previous post.

    I hope you never lose your sense of wonder,
    You get your fill to eat but always keep that hunger,
    May you never take one single breath for granted,

    God forbid love ever leave you empty handed,


    I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean,

    Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens,
    Promise me that you’ll give faith a fighting chance,

    And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.

    I hope you dance… I hope you dance…

    I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance,
    Never settle for the path of least resistance,
    Livin’ might mean takin’ chances, but they’re worth takin’,
    Lovin’ might be a mistake, but it’s worth makin’,


    Don’t let some Hell bent heart leave you bitter,
    When you come close to sellin’ out reconsider,

    Give the heavens above more than just a passing glance,
    And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance

    I hope you dance… I hope you dance.

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    For my 76th. birthday in April, 2022 Pretty took me and our two granddaughters to the zoo. She carried Molly in her car seat, diaper bag on her back, often carrying two year old Ella in her left arm while I tagged along with my two bionic knees. We had a small parade of our own. Please know I offered to rent a stroller when we entered, but Pretty said the line to rent one was too long to wait. There were two people ahead of me.

    The day was a memory maker, and Pretty deserves an award for creating a magical time for the four of us. I love these little girls to the moon and back.

    that day I hoped they both would dance…

    …and they do!

  • the mystery of the unknown children

    the mystery of the unknown children


    The children in these photos had significance to my mother who lost interest in her family history somewhere along the road to losing her memories. Pretty and I found these pictures among hundreds of them dumped haphazardly in boxes in my mom’s garage when we were cleaning out her house to move her from her home in Rosenberg to a memory care facility in Houston in 2007. I could identify most of the people in her large collection, but I am clueless on these children whose photos had no names anywhere. I love these photos for the times and places they represent, but what wouldn’t I give to know who they were and what their relationship was to my mom.

    who is this little girl framed by flowers?

    she had five identical pictures of this little boy

    but no name on any of them

    this little girl seemed happy with being photographed

    these two little girls didn’t look happy at all

    Blackburn Photography took this formal portait –

    still in photography business in Houston today

    The moral of this story (if there is one): ask questions today of the ancient ones in your family if you want to avoid unsolved mysteries in your future. Starting the new year is a good time to begin. My Uncle Marion might have said “discover more in 2024.” I say go for it.

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    Slava Ukraini. For the children.

  • on the trail to forever: selected works by Wayside Artist

    on the trail to forever: selected works by Wayside Artist


    In the beginning of my blogging life in 2009 there was Nanine d’Onofrio also known as Wayside Artist. As 2023 goes galloping into history I chose to celebrate our friendship and her work which Pretty and I have always believed to be magical.

    Ann’s feisty adorable dogs Cassie Potatoes (left) and Miss Poppy Seed

    from an early Christmas card she made for us during the Red Man years

    we like to believe they all got together when they crossed the Rainbow Bridge

    Father Christmas and friends

    cover of 2016 calendar

    the Skippack is a creek on a trail in Pennsylvania

    I rode this trail many times with Ann in cyberspace

    artist title: In the Temple of Zeus

    from 2017 calendar

    February in 2017 calendar

    2023 Christmas card

    Pretty and I trust we are on the road to forever with Wayside Artist whose work embodies the spirit of her subjects, the majesty and mystery of the places she loves.

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    Happy New Year from Pretty and me at our home in South Carolina to wherever you call home – may 2024 be the year the long arc of the moral universe bends toward justice.

  • nothing says holiday fun like Pompoms!


    Look, Mommy – we got Gamecock Pompoms from Nana and Naynay!

    (these pompoms go great with my new sparkly boots)

    come on, Molly – let’s play with our pompoms!

    Molly, watch Mommy show you what to do

    no thanks, I can’t watch

    okay, I think I got it

    Mommy thinks I’ve got it

    no Molly, you don’t have it until you can Fly with the pompoms!

    (but the magic boots help)

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    Slava Ukraini. For all children young and old everywhere.

  • get this girl a bigger reindeer to ride, but her heart is enough big

    get this girl a bigger reindeer to ride, but her heart is enough big


    Nana, is this reindeer for y’all’s house or is it for sale at the mall?

    just a minute, Naynay – I’m talking to Nana

    hooray, Nana says we can keep you for now

    sorry, little reindeer, but Naynay says we need to go

    we take the gifts to neighbors’ houses, knock on their door

    and say Merry Christmas!

    This year was our first year with my little sister Molly. When we got to our last house, I asked Naynay to take a picture of me and my little sister. Molly wasn’t feeling the spirit or the fun.

    I insisted

    but Molly was out of there

    Merry Christmas everybody!