-
-
IF YOU WANT MORE
- cool at the zoo
- Wanda came to a city near us!
- Molly, Molly, how do I love thee?
- prejudice by any other name is still prejudice
- a man of letters (8) – combat! January, 1945
- BJU and Me: Queer Voices from the World’s Most Christian University
- never play this game after midnight
- it’s a simple matter of justice – remembering Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
- weekend specials popular at the Cardinal Cat Cafe
- the hideout – revisited on Friday the 13th., 2023
- Cardinal Cat Cafe
- 1/6 two year anniversary
- Bervin’s grandmother’s advice to K McCarthy
- human frailty, mendacity, and George Santos – plus pink boxing gloves
- last train from Gun Hill – and Ukraine
-
-
Flannery O'Connor answered the mystery for me of why I write?
-
I write because I don't know what I think until I read what I say.
-
- -
-
Category Archives: The Way Life Should Be
thanksgiving is relative
“The oak trees were alive with color in the midst of the evergreens. Bright red and yellow leaves catching the sunlight as Daddy and I walked through the brush. The smell of the pines was fresh and all around us. … Continue reading
Posted in family life, Humor, Lesbian Literary, Life, Personal, photography, Reflections, Slice of Life, The Way Life Is, The Way Life Should Be
Tagged boo at the zoo, deep in the heart: a memoir of love and longing, family gatherings at Thanksgiving, new granddaughter, piney woods of east texas, Thanksgiving
7 Comments
Grade for Republicans in Midterms: D
Dobbs + Deniers + Donald = Defeat Pretty, who follows political predictors via Twitter, kept telling me all weekend that the Dems were going to maintain control of the Senate but I couldn’t breathe a sigh of relief until I … Continue reading
Posted in family life, Humor, Life, Personal, politics, racism, Reflections, sexism, Slice of Life, The Way Life Is, The Way Life Should Be
Tagged 01/06 insurrection and committee hearings, 2022 us midterm elections, boots on the ground, culinary union in nevada, democrats still control Senate, dobbs decision, election deniers, House too early to call, inflation, joe biden, Pretty's Twitter election predictors, young voters
13 Comments
gimme a break – no, seriously – time out?
The mid term elections are in the past now, but my nerves continue to jingle jangle like the spurs on my boots used to do as I anxiously await outcomes. I find myself turning to movies of questionable taste on … Continue reading
the ONE thing you’ve got going: your ONE vote – Shirley Chisholm (1924 – 2005)
In 1968 Shirley Chisholm was the first Black woman elected to the United States Congress; she served in the House of Representatives from 1969 – 1983. In 1972 she became the first woman to run for the Democratic Party’s nomination … Continue reading
Posted in Personal, politics, racism, Reflections, sexism, The Way Life Is, The Way Life Should Be
Tagged first black candidate for a major party nomination, first black woman elected to congress, first woman to run for democratic party nomination for president of the us, midterm elections on november 08 2022, shirley chisholm, speaking truth to power, spunk
4 Comments
what is really on the line November 8th?
A nation is not conquered until the hearts of its women are on the ground. Then it is done. No matter how brave its warriors or how strong its weapons. Cheyenne proverb We cannot be distracted by the noises that … Continue reading
the Urban Legend we called Carport Kitty was a Seeker
?? – October 22, 2022 I am a seekerA poor sinful creatureThere is no weaker than I amI am a seekerAnd you are a teacherYou are a reacherSo reach downReach out and lead meGuide me and keep meIn the shelter … Continue reading
Boo at the Zoo in 2022
For all our friends in cyberspace who have been with us longer than a hot minute (or at least a year) you will recognize changes in our family photos for our second annual Riverbanks Halloween Boo at the Zoo experience. … Continue reading
Posted in family life, Humor, Life, Personal, photography, Random, Reflections, Slice of Life, The Way Life Is, The Way Life Should Be
Tagged boo at the riverbanks zoo in columbia sc, happy halloween, naynay, number one son, pretty, pretty also, pretty too, super bro in law, the family goes for their second annual boo at the zoo experience
11 Comments
what do Tanya Tucker, Brandi Carlisle, Lizzo and Selena Gomez have to do with the 2022 mid-term elections?
Oh well, gosh, golly. Now that you mention it – nothing, unless you count the one vote thing in the upcoming elections on November 8th. Each one of these American singers has one vote in the election which is now … Continue reading
Posted in Lesbian Literary, Life, Personal, politics, racism, Random, Reflections, sexism, Slice of Life, The Way Life Is, The Way Life Should Be
Tagged brandi carlisle, democracy one vote one voice, gas prices gun crimes, headlines, inflation, lizzo, mid term elections on november 8th, restore Roe, selena gomez, tanya tucker
7 Comments
Zan, Zendegi, Azadi (Women, Life, Freedom)
A 22 year old woman named Mahsa Amini died on September 16th. in a hospital in Tehran, Iran while in the custody of the Guidance Patrol a/k/a the morality police who arrested her three days before for a violation involving … Continue reading
Posted in family life, Lesbian Literary, Life, Personal, politics, racism, Random, Reflections, sexism, Slice of Life, The Way Life Is, The Way Life Should Be
Tagged Author Kamin Mohamaddi, bad hijab, dobbs decision to outlaw abortion, feminism in the 21st century, george floyd protests, Mahsa Amini's death in Iran, protests in iran, uprisings in iran, women life freedom, zan zendegi azadi
5 Comments
we must never come to this store again
Once upon a time somewhere along the supply chain for my bupropion med which I have taken for years to treat free-floating anxiety (that turned into specific anxiety during the Agent Orange previous administration in the USA), well, this med … Continue reading
Posted in family life, Humor, Lesbian Literary, Life, Personal, photography, politics, Random, Reflections, Slice of Life, The Way Life Is, The Way Life Should Be
Tagged anti anxiety medication, balloons, bupropion, going to the playground, happy birthday to Ella, having a three year old birthday party, hay ride, mixup in medications, pharmacist, pony rides, Pretty gets angry, quitting tobacco use, school friends, wellbutrin
15 Comments