For any who want more, complete list of all posts by month since 2011
  • the mystery of the unknown children

    the mystery of the unknown children


    The children in these photos had significance to my mother who lost interest in her family history somewhere along the road to losing her memories. Pretty and I found these pictures among hundreds of them dumped haphazardly in boxes in my mom’s garage when we were cleaning out her house to move her from her home in Rosenberg to a memory care facility in Houston in 2007. I could identify most of the people in her large collection, but I am clueless on these children whose photos had no names anywhere. I love these photos for the times and places they represent, but what wouldn’t I give to know who they were and what their relationship was to my mom.

    who is this little girl framed by flowers?

    she had five identical pictures of this little boy –

    but no name on any of them

    this little girl seemed happy with being photographed

    these two little girls didn’t look happy at all

    Blackburn Photography took this formal portait –

    still in photography business in Houston today

    The moral of this story (if there is one): ask questions today of the ancient ones in your family if you want to avoid unsolved mysteries in your future. Starting the new year is a good time to begin. My Uncle Marion might have said “discover more in 2024.” I say go for it.

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    Slava Ukraini. For the children.

  • my motivation is tomorrow

    my motivation is tomorrow


    I am celebrating two twenty-three year anniversaries in 2024: the first and most important one will be on a specific day in February (the 9th.) because that was the day my life with Pretty began; the second anniversary has no specific date, but 2001 was also the year Rafa Nadal became a professional tennis player who captured my admiration and affection throughout his lengthy career. I admit to shedding a few tears this morning as I watched him wave to the crowds in Brisbane, Queensland, Australia following his 3-set loss to Australian Jordan Thompson in the quarterfinals of the Brisbane International tournament which I expect he knew was his last hurrah with the crowds in the stands there.

    The New Indian Express June 03, 2017

    Nadal’s passion for perfection in the game of tennis has been a thrilling journey that has entertained millions of fans around the world. His humility regardless of outcomes in the battles on the tennis courts has been a unique indication of the character that makes him a role model for professional athletes in any sport.

    Just one day at a time, right? Rafa, Pretty and I have been together for nearly a third of my life, and I will miss watching the dynamic Spanish tennis player whose motivation has always been to make tomorrow better with the illusion he was going to get better that day. I believe Pretty and I will continue to share his dream one day at a time with each passing year we are fortunate enough to be together.

    All of us can make 2024 a better tomorrow if we meet each day with an expectation that there is an opportunity, there is the possibility of doing better than we did the day before.

    I will close with the words I’ve heard Rafa say countless times during the on court interviews following his wins in a match, “thank you, thank you very much.”

  • on the trail to forever: selected works by Wayside Artist

    on the trail to forever: selected works by Wayside Artist


    In the beginning of my blogging life in 2009 there was Nanine d’Onofrio also known as Wayside Artist. As 2023 goes galloping into history I chose to celebrate our friendship and her work which Pretty and I have always believed to be magical.

    Ann’s feisty adorable dogs Cassie Potatoes (left) and Miss Poppy Seed

    from an early Christmas card she made for us during the Red Man years

    we like to believe they all got together when they crossed the Rainbow Bridge

    Father Christmas and friends

    cover of 2016 calendar

    the Skippack is a creek on a trail in Pennsylvania

    I rode this trail many times with Ann in cyberspace

    artist title: In the Temple of Zeus

    from 2017 calendar

    February in 2017 calendar

    2023 Christmas card

    Pretty and I trust we are on the road to forever with Wayside Artist whose work embodies the spirit of her subjects, the majesty and mystery of the places she loves.

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    Happy New Year from Pretty and me at our home in South Carolina to wherever you call home – may 2024 be the year the long arc of the moral universe bends toward justice.

  • nothing says holiday fun like Pompoms!


    Look, Mommy – we got Gamecock Pompoms from Nana and Naynay!

    (these pompoms go great with my new sparkly boots)

    come on, Molly – let’s play with our pompoms!

    Molly, watch Mommy show you what to do

    no thanks, I can’t watch

    okay, I think I got it

    Mommy thinks I’ve got it

    no Molly, you don’t have it until you can Fly with the pompoms!

    (but the magic boots help)

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    Slava Ukraini. For all children young and old everywhere.

  • get this girl a bigger reindeer to ride, but her heart is enough big

    get this girl a bigger reindeer to ride, but her heart is enough big


    Nana, is this reindeer for y’all’s house or is it for sale at the mall?

    just a minute, Naynay – I’m talking to Nana

    hooray, Nana says we can keep you for now

    sorry, little reindeer, but Naynay says we need to go

    we take the gifts to neighbors’ houses, knock on their door

    and say Merry Christmas!

    This year was our first year with my little sister Molly. When we got to our last house, I asked Naynay to take a picture of me and my little sister. Molly wasn’t feeling the spirit or the fun.

    I insisted

    but Molly was out of there

    Merry Christmas everybody!