“I came to cheer you up,” announced three-year-old Molly as she pulled me the three steps from the carport to the back door of the kitchen. I told her thank you so much and how happy I was to see her, how much I’d missed her and her big sister five-year-old Ella who was galloping ahead of us with her mother, Caroline, and Nana. Molly’s words made me smile – she had already cheered me.
Caroline had called earlier in the afternoon to say she and the girls were coming over to cook dinner for us that night since we had told her and our son Drew we had asked a veterinarian to make a house call to help us say a final farewell to our little Carl the next day. Since she had been the vet we used when we needed this assistance with our big guy Spike six weeks ago, she was familiar with our location and made the appointment for Friday, the 9th. of May.
The little girls were like a tornado of energy – their laughter, moving at warp speed all over the house and back yard leaving a path of destruction in their “tree house” and our den – provided a welcome distraction for Pretty and me from the pall that enveloped our house for the past few days of waiting for the inevitable. Caroline got busy in the kitchen and cooked a delicious shrimp creole dish for us. For dessert, she’d even brought a yummy key lemon pie.
“Let’s take a family photo,” exclaimed Ella when her mother said it was time to go home. After all, it was a school night. Caroline shook her head, said it was past their bedtime, but I chimed in with Ella and argued I thought a picture was a great idea. I felt Ella was trying to postpone getting in the car to leave, but it was the first time she had asked for a family photo at our house so I was 100% on board.
Ella, Nana, Naynay, and Molly
I had hoped Carl would stay outside with us for the family picture, but we took too much time getting fixed. When we came inside and the girls were about to leave, I said for them to be sure to give Carl a hug on their way out, and Ella said, “Carl is going over the rainbow bridge tomorrow,” as she bent to give him a hug. Molly took off one of the four necklaces she’d found in Nana’s jewelry inventory and draped it on Carl’s neck. Caroline quickly intervened and gave the necklace to me.
The girls ran to the car with their mother while Nana and I followed to say goodbye to them. We heard Caroline laugh and asked her what was going on. “Ella said she hoped Carl didn’t run into Spike over the rainbow bridge because there could be a bad fight.” Nana reassured Ella that nobody would get mad at each other on the other side of the rainbow bridge. Caroline added if anybody did get angry, there would be baby gates like Nana and Naynay had in their house to keep Spike and Carl apart.
Nana and I agreed later that Molly, Ella and Caroline had cheered us, the perfect distraction for the sorrows to come in less than twenty-four hours.
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12 responses to “saying goodbye to Carl – the day before”
I am so very sorry.
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Thank you, Cindy.
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Ella said, “Carl is going over the rainbow bridge tomorrow,”
Breaks my heart,
Safe travels Carl.
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Thank you so much, Bob. I know you and Carlos understand.
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Losing two dogs in such a short time is overwhelming, I’m so glad the girls came by to bring some joy to help you through it.
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They are a blessing, Rachel. Truly. Thank you for understanding overwhelming.
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I really do understand. Be kind to yourselves.
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Oh Sheila, all I can do is cry with you and T. I’ve lost too many over the years not to feel that awful aching pain of raw grief. I’m so, so sorry!!
Yesterday, Friday May 9, my neighbor and friend, Ginette, helped me take Ludo to the vet for his blood test. It had been raining buckets all day. On the way home we saw an enormous rainbow, the widest, most intensely colorful one either of us had ever seen. As she took a few photos, I said, “Whatever animals are crossing over to Heaven today, are getting a spectacular welcome.” Welcome home Carl.
Thank heavens and rainbows for happy go lucky children.
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Such a beautiful feeling to know that you and your friend saw the enormous rainbow – thank you for telling me. Don’t you hope that all of our animals in both our families have a wonderful meet and greet for us??
Carl has gone home. Finally to his forever home where he will not be moved.
Love you, Ann.
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Yes, I do hope that. Much love!!
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darlings, how sad but you couldn’t ask for a better distraction. Big hugs, such a sad time.
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Thanks so very much, Annie, our friend across the Big Water. The little girls always lift our spirits, which are helps along the sad trek.
Love and hugs
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