Dancing with Destiny – the Williams Sisters

At her press conference following her loss in the 2019 singles finals at Wimbledon, Serena Williams was questioned about why she lost. Although she tried to say her opponent played a brilliant match, the members of the press wouldn’t let it go. They asked her if she thought her lack of match play in 2019 had hurt her, whether her role as a mother took too much time away from her tennis, and finally someone said they heard Billie Jean King wondered if she spent too much time supporting equal rights or other political issues.

Serena’s quick response to that question was “The day I stop supporting equality is the day I die.”

For more than twenty years beginning in 1997 the Williams sisters, Venus and Serena, carried the heavy burden of American tennis (both women and men) on their shoulders; the load was never an easy one. Their two-person dynasty has often been controversial, but their attitudes about the sport they represented matured as their games became more powerful. Their popularity increased as they turned out to be more comfortable with their celebrity, more confident in their games. They grew up in front of a nation and, eventually, the world.

Serena won her history making 23rd. singles major at the 2017 Australian Open but made even bigger news when she announced her pregnancy following the tournament. The tennis world gasped at the possibility of a French Open, Wimbledon and even a US Open without its reigning diva who struck fear into the rackets of any player unlucky enough to see her name on Serena’s side of the draw.



Venus Williams and her little sister Serena



Never in their 27 professional matches prior to that night were the theater and drama more exciting than in the quarterfinals of the 2015 US Open under the lights in New York City.  Approximately 23,000 fans came to the Billie Jean King Tennis Center in Flushing Meadows to watch a match that was more than a game, and the Williams sisters delivered another thrilling exhibition of tennis at the highest level. As the ESPN commentators noted before the match, this was a big-time American sporting event with all the bells and whistles we love in our fascination with sports.

Tom Rinaldi who replaced Dick Enberg as the TV tennis philosopher that adds stories to evoke our emotional attachment to an event, made these remarks prior to the match: “In an individual sport, their stories will always be linked…in our view of the Williams sisters, we see champions sharing a court, a desire to win, and a name. True, one will win –  but both have prevailed.”


As a tennis fan who has followed their careers since they first played competitively and in keeping with our celebration of women’s history month, I salute two American women who personify persistence and perseverance to be the very best in their sport and in so doing, prove repeatedly that they are both the images of true champions. Their love of family speaks volumes about their character, and their love of playing tennis is a gift we can all be grateful to appreciate

You rock, girls – keep going. Records are made to be broken.

Stay tuned.

(I have written countless posts with references to the Williams sisters, and I took excerpts from a few of them to write this one.)


About Sheila Morris

Sheila Morris is a personal historian, essayist with humorist tendencies, lesbian activist, truth seeker and speaker in the tradition of other female Texas storytellers including her paternal grandmother. In December, 2017, the University of South Carolina Press published her collection of first-person accounts of a few of the people primarily responsible for the development of LGBTQ organizations in South Carolina. Southern Perspectives on the Queer Movement: Committed to Home will resonate with everyone interested in LGBTQ history in the South during the tumultuous times from the AIDS pandemic to marriage equality. She has published five nonfiction books including two memoirs, an essay compilation and two collections of her favorite blogs from I'll Call It Like I See It. Her first book, Deep in the Heart: A Memoir of Love and Longing received a Golden Crown Literary Society Award in 2008. Her writings have been included in various anthologies - most recently the 2017 Saints and Sinners Literary Magazine. Her latest book, Four Ticket Ride, was released in January, 2019. She is a displaced Texan living in South Carolina with her wife Teresa Williams and their dogs Spike, Charly and Carl. She is also Naynay to her two granddaughters Ella and Molly James who light up her life for real. Born in rural Grimes County, Texas in 1946 her Texas roots still run wide and deep.
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4 Responses to Dancing with Destiny – the Williams Sisters

  1. Been wondering how they’re all going to get up to speed this year…

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    • Oh gosh, me, too. I was a bit surprised that the French Open moved to September which is traditionally the US Open month. I am worried that the clay season will be suspended. That is my favorite season for tennis. I don’t mean to pout. I realize we have larger issues to consider, but I still will miss it.


  2. Luanne says:

    That was good. I had no idea she was pushed to the point where she point up for equality like that. Good for her!!! And thank you, Sheila. Are you able to get out of the house into the backyard? Do you feel well enough to walk or is walking a problem? Do you have any sun in the backyard? I ask because I am finding that so helpful right now.

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    • Oh my goodness, yes! I luckily love my home – it’s on a wonderful corner lot with a large back yard and swimming pool…we added the screened porch last summer along with a small outdoor bath and pool toys storage shed. We’ve had lots of rain over the past few days but today the sun was out and lifted all of our spirits. Walking is a miracle for me this year – May 1st is the anniversary of my first knee surgery. Can you believe it? The bionic knees have been fabulous – my only trouble now is stamina and the pain when I stand. That would probably be better if I stood more!! I am so fortunate to have Pretty who fusses around me because I remind her I am 14 years older than she is!! 🙂


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